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Belessa House. It's where we let
performers tell us who they want to have

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with and why.

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I'm Adria Rae. My name is Lucas Frost.

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Lucas is my ex -fiance.

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We were together about four years ago,
so it's been now

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like three years since we've been split
up.

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Can you talk about what happened? Why it
ended?

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It was a lot.

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Compilation of things it wasn't just one
thing.

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No breakup really ends like because of
one thing or relationship really so I

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would say it was just like a perfect
storm of things and Me being really

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at the time was definitely like a
portion of that. I was only 21 When he

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proposed to me and it was really quick.
It was a very like whirlwind Romance, it

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was like very fast and very passionate
and we're both in the industry trying to

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navigate that whole piece of it as well
and having like a relationship in the

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public eye and so there's just like a
lot of moving pieces when it comes to

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and trying to deal with that maturely at
21 when I'm still trying to figure out

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how to like be in the industry I think
was really hard and did you guys go

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through a period when you broke up where
you weren't talking oh yeah we didn't

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talk for like two years after we broke
up like not a word During that time

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you guys weren't talking, though, was
there a side of you that didn't want to

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reach out? Or was it like, no?

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Yeah, I mean, always. I try and end
friendships, relationships, everything

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amicably. So to not have that was
definitely frustrating, but I can't

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force it.

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So how did you guys make it back to each
other?

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Yeah, it was about a year ago. She
texted me.

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She said she grew up a lot and things
like that.

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i guess she had gone through a similar
situation where she was in my position

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her relationship after us and so it gave
her a little bit more of an

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understanding of the position i was in
when we were dating so she kind of

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reached out on that like that level and
she um we ended up hanging out i think

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like a couple weeks later and was it
just like it had been

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Yeah, but more comfortable.

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Like, there was nothing to hide at that
point.

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Because you had seen the worst of each
other. Oh, yeah. So it's like there was

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not, like, the comfortability had gone
from, like, it was already really

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comfortable, like, best friends type,
but then it went to, like, a level of

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comfortability that I didn't really
think existed.

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Where did you get the perspective that
you have now? I mean, obviously you're

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older, but, like, did something happen
that... Um...

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I think the perspective I have now is
just mainly the fact that I'm 25.

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I've gone through some shit now and I've
gotten to where I'm at and he's still

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been like one of the really stable
pillars in my life as like just a good

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to have and be there for me. And so I
thought today would be a good chance to

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kind of reunite because it's been a long
time.

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It's been four years since you guys shot
a scene, I think. Yeah. Do you remember

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the first time you guys worked together?

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Yes, I do.

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It was a Super Bowl theme, and I
remember Donnie Rock was

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supposed to be my boyfriend, and he
falls asleep during the Super Bowl, and

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pizza guy shows up with our pizza, and
it's Lucas, and because I'm just so

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disappointed that my boyfriend's asleep,
of course I have to ping the pizza guy.

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I was in a relationship at the time.

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So we had chemistry, but nothing could
be explored past that because I was in a

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relationship.

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And when did that evolve?

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When I became single, shortly after.

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We hung out once, and it kind of didn't
really stop.

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Because now you guys are at a good
place, do you think that you would ever

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revisit something with him?

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Um, I don't know. I have no idea what
the future holds. Like I said, I have...

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so much love for him in my heart that
like, I don't doubt that as being a

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possibility. I think if we do end up
being together in the future, it'll

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probably be later. Like when we're both
like really over our bullshit and really

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ready to actually like be boring
together.

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I'm always open to try everything.
That's how I kind of run my life. I

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really shut the door on things.

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If it happens, it happens.

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If it doesn't, it doesn't. I'm not going
to force anything, but I'm not going to

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say no to things.

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I think relationships can almost
essentially be better after a hardship.

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And that goes for friendships,
relationships, like relationships with

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members, things like that, too.

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Are you feeling nervous? You said you
were. I am a little nervous, but also,

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like, he's one of the people that I
have, like, the best sexual chemistry

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Like, he really understands me and,
like, my body, and I think vice versa.

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So I also am excited because I think
this is going to be a really good

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Are you nervous?

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Yeah, I mean, I'd be lying if I wasn't.

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That's the first time you've ever
actually said you're nervous. Because

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usually, we always comment on how you
are the quintessential, like, calm,

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confident person.

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So this is interesting and it's
different to see you this way.

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I mean, yeah.

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We're going to go get her. All right.
Next time you come through these doors.

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She'll be waiting for you. Sounds good.

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Hey.

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Hi. How are you?

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I just realized.

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Bye.

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Mm -hmm.

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Right there,

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right there, right there, right there.

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Thank you.

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Worth it?

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Worth it.

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I'm glad you didn't blame me last night.

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Yeah, me too.

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Well, guys, thank you for letting us
capture this great story, which I

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really enjoyed during both of your
times.

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You guys are both delightful people.

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I'm sure the truth is somewhere in the
middle.

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Probably, yeah. That's usually where it
is.

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Thank you guys so much.

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And enjoy the rest of your day.

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Thank you.